Yes, they should. But that's my opinion. There are no facts for or against either choice making a marriage last however. There can be a case made for the marriage not becoming rocky over domestic points. You get to learn the life before living it fully. I'll say it. It's all a crap shoot. Why not add a little familiarity to the equation. The really-real does not start until you live under the same roof with a person. It's all facade until then. I know, it's not the church-y thing to do. But, the church-y thing usually has less to do with God and more to do with traditional rules and peoples perception of you. Truth is, that you do what works. That sometimes is not what traditional values agrees with. This takes a little bravery, but hey, its just your marriage right?
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Yes, they should. But that's my opinion. There are no facts for or against either choice making a marriage last however. There can be a case made for the marriage not becoming rocky over domestic points. You get to learn the life before living it fully.
I'll say it. It's all a crap shoot. Why not add a little familiarity to the equation. The really-real does not start until you live under the same roof with a person. It's all facade until then.
I know, it's not the church-y thing to do. But, the church-y thing usually has less to do with God and more to do with traditional rules and peoples perception of you. Truth is, that you do what works. That sometimes is not what traditional values agrees with. This takes a little bravery, but hey, its just your marriage right?
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